Controversies around sex dolls continue one after another. Those who deny it describe it as a bad product that materializes human beings. It is not helpful to the healthy development of human society and is not conducive to the further development of intimate relationships. Those who hold them think of sex dolls Not only does it give them an emotional supplement, but it also makes them more confident in their close relationships in reality.
Of course, there are many opinions, so is a sex doll a lifelike human-sized partner? Does it allow the real emotions in the relationship to be sublimated? Does it help real intimacy? Relevant media organizations interviewed Tong Li, a sex education expert and secretary-general of the Chinese Society of Sexuality. The content of the interview showed us the inner nature of sex dolls and provided more references for customers who have not purchased sex dolls.
The following is the relevant interview content:
What are sex dolls?
Sex dolls are also called love dolls and real dolls. They are a kind of adult sex toys with a high degree of authenticity. The original intention of their invention is physical satisfaction. In the past, inflatable dolls were mentioned in many movies and reports. With the revolution of technology and the evolution of materials, there is now a sex doll. People may need more visual and tactile stimulation, and psychological satisfaction, which creates a demand for artificial human toys. Sex dolls have a human form, which is actually a derivative of adult sex toys.
Do you know that “sex dolls” perception is too narrow?
For users, there is a stigmatization of “sex dolls”, as if he has a doll, he is a pervert. Sometimes users don’t have a relationship with it, they even sex and hug it, and call it “sex doll” as if it is dirty. Users need to be euphemistic and implicit. In fact, in my opinion, this view is too narrow for the definition and understanding of sex, and we have to extend the definition of sex.
What is the difference between sex dolls and other sex toys?
Compared with other adult toys, people who own sex dolls have higher needs and requirements for themselves, they know what they want and take better care of themselves.
Is the sex doll a need for companionship and lover relationships?
Sex dolls are a substitute and satisfaction in real life. In fact, it is quite similar to love psychology, but it is more inclined to possess and control a person. He may have suffered setbacks in real life, it is difficult to establish a better real relationship, or some of his psychological needs cannot be met in reality, so he satisfies this part of the fantasy in a virtual world.
There is another characteristic of sex dolls. She is at the mercy of her and cannot resist. The owner has control over the doll, which is a bit like a sadomasochistic plot. Some people may not be able to express their thoughts with their real partners, so they get satisfaction from the doll. Of course, some users will have a mentality of “Don’t talk to me about sex, I just simply appreciate it”. But in our opinion, it is a personal choice.
Is it possible for a doll to replace a real person emotionally?
Some doll lovers think of dolls as their girlfriends, wives, deceased wives, and daughters. From a material point of view, a doll cannot replace a real person, but from an emotional point of view, it can achieve part of the emotional satisfaction, repair the pain, repair the loss, and satisfying part of the psychological desire.
There is feedback between people’s true emotions, that is, I have emotions for you, and you have emotions for me. A simulated sex doll cannot feedback its emotions, in other words, the emotional feedback is only imagined by the user. For example, if you buy a bag for your wife, she may appear cold or happy, and she will say: “I like/dislike this style.” But a doll can never have such feedback.
Real emotions have power in people, and they will affect and change people. In real life, people have a lot of helplessness and incompetence. Imagination will of course bring people pleasure. It creates a safe zone for people to send and have fun. But that is always just one’s own world, not real feedback from the outside world.
People with a partner, why do you want to buy sex dolls?
In addition, some people have a partner but still have sex dolls. This is manifested in true intimacy, which is equal and autonomous. On the one hand, sex dolls are also a manifestation of the desire to control interpersonal relationships, and human uncontrollability is stronger. Data surveys show that the vast majority of men still commit self-profanity after marriage. When you and your partner are not sexually and emotionally
