Whenever our wishes are out of reach, we will more or less pin our hopes on things within reach. From the closure of the first sex doll experience store “Aile” to the recurring “love stories” with the dolls and the heated discussions among netizens, I am afraid that even netizens who are isolated from the world will have heard of sex dolls.
We talked about the topic of sex dolls, and the comments from netizens are really mixed. In many people’s impressions, it’s just a matter of a child holding a small sex doll and not leaving his hand, but an adult holding a sex doll for half a step, and even “showing affection” on social platforms, this is really stuffy. A mouthful of alternative dog food! But is this true love?
Regarding the novelty of sex dolls, in the eyes of ordinary people, this kind of life-size sex doll is good to watch at home, and it is a bit scary to take them out. However, some people not only take him out of the house but also associated him with him.
Although the full size of the sex doll is still quite small compared to a normal adult woman. So when someone goes out with a sex doll, many passers-by will think it is a “child”, of course, there will be dissenting voices, but as long as there is no positive personal attack, the relationship with the sex doll is nothing but a few clouds. That’s it.
Although China does not advocate individualism like the West, it certainly has the most basic freedom. For example, shopping with sex dolls is freedom; having a unique name is freedom; of course, it is more freedom to dress up and send photos. However, freedom in Chinese society also takes into account collective feelings, and this kind of puzzling behavior will inevitably attract attention.
It is not the person involved, it is unable to understand the motive of his behavior, and some can only be guessed.
Compared with the more feudal society in the past, the current society, which is constantly spitting out new things, has opened up a lot. So one of the most common phenomena is couples on the side of the road, from time to time there is a handful of dog food that is caught off guard. Although the experienced grandfathers and aunts disagree, for the young bachelor, this is indeed a small excitement. However, with the imbalance between men and women and the general increase in the conditions for girls to choose a spouse, getting out of singles is really a big problem.
So, falling in love with sex dolls, perhaps because of this pressure? Buying a DIY lover you like, think about it this way, it doesn’t seem to be much different from a star-chaser calling her idol her husband? It’s just that the sex doll has no life. In this way, in addition to choosing to fall in love with a sex doll, apart from being inconsistent with general ethical concepts, there is indeed no place to be pointed out. I am happy and consider myself to be true love. Why care about what others say?
Sex dolls are derivatives of the second-element culture, so as the birthplace of East Asian second-element culture, there are natural incidents about sex dolls in Japan. For example, a man decides to marry the virtual idol Hatsune Miku because he likes it so much. Compared with this incident, is it a relatively minor incident of falling in love with a sex doll? But everyone is still wondering: “Why do so many outstanding girls, men have to choose virtual characters to get married?”
In the report, the man also revealed that he had been harassed by female colleagues many times in the workplace, and therefore lost his sense of women. Although Hatsune is a two-dimensional character, he brought great comfort to him at the most critical moment.
Leo Tolstoy once said: “Happy families are similar, and unfortunate families have their own misfortunes.” But in this rapidly changing society, for individuals, happiness can be different, and misfortune can be similar. . In fact, in a civilized and advanced society, in addition to being able to open up a wide range of speeches, it should also be able to accept different individuals in any way that does not violate the basic legal bottom line. Therefore, everyone should treat the love with a sex doll in a reasonable way.
